What is Infidelity? 

To understand how to heal, we have to understand what it is we are healing from.  

It is Okay to Stay

So much of our culture says that staying with someone who is unfaithful is a weakness, but what if we could view staying with someone who is willing to work on themselves and make amends as a strength?

Why Does it Hurt So Bad?

Infidelity is a breach in our security and safety.  We find partners that we make commitments to journey through life together but, even more, to help us feel safer in this world. The pain is significant because it is a severing of our deeply ingrained survival system.